It wasn’t such a long time ago that I said, I will, and started the exciting process of planning my wedding. I bought magazines, breezed through bridal shows and debated over roses vs. freesia. The freesia won out because of its heady fragrance, that will drift through the entire wedding day.
We are going to take the aisle flowers from the church to the reception, and with a simple addition of a hanger, they are going to decorate the front of the head table and augment the centre pieces. Brilliant thinking. I was bedazzled at (flowers), where I had the coolest service and walked away filled with great ideas and one more thing ticked off my giant to-do list!
I’m still not certain about the menu for the wedding. My fiancé Jeff and I are still debating roast prime or a medley of chicken, garnished in a Mediterranean- style sauce. That decision is still up for grabs!
My brides maids love me because I decided on a turquoise colour theme, and, now they can choose their own style dress. That way, they will still be able to wear the dress to other celebrations and not curse me when they look inside their closets. LOL
I’ve hired the photographer we were so impressed with; a little photo-journal style and a little traditional. We wanted to share as many family shots as humanly possible, but still have the balance of cool shots that we can look at years from now. Candids are fun too!
I am contemplating a reality-type video, but want to really think about it longer, and the cruise to the Caribbean is locked and loaded. Ah, Jeff, you did it well!
I have a little time now to check out invitations and I hear that trendy vintage is the newest rage in wedding stationery. With our glam- type theme, ( thanks to the Wedding Guide- I saw this when I picked up my guide!)
I’m thinking of another spa appointment soon. I am so pampered and feel so much lighter when I spend an afternoon at Estetica Day Spa in Lakeshore. I started going on a regular basis about six months, as the reality of the wedding started to hit me. I am going there because I wanted a radiant complexion on my wedding day. It’s definitely brighter with the treatments happening and I am loving the new me. The spa is relaxing and I found the occasional massage has certainly soothed out any stresses that I feel coming on. The place is an oasis and I love the atmosphere- so soothing.
Well, I’ve been rambling, but I wanted to start this blogging. The wedding is in October , so there wil be lots more to come as the months get closer.
Signing off!
In the past, grooms had no say in the wedding preparations-ever. His job was to propose to the love of his life and book the honeymoon, while the bride and her mother planned the day! But, a new phenomenon has emerged with the shifting of demographics.
A decade ago, the bride was 21 years of age, and the groom was 23 when they married. Fast-forward to 2010 and the ages are now 28 and 30. With that shift, we find that over 50% of the couples are living together first, and they have assets, investments and sometimes even children before they say their vows.
The tradition of the bride’s parents paying for the wedding is evolving into the couple paying for the whole bill or having their parents contribute a portion. Since the grooms are now involved with footing some or all of the bill, it only makes good sense that they have a say during the planning process. Although they aren’t having their way with colour choices, (can you see them asking for Rose Dust or Purple Orchid?), they can get involved with the entertainment by looking after the DJ, band or transportation service.
This change of attitude can be a positive for the brides-to-be because the men can reduce some of the stress from your bridal planning. These are jobs that you can trust them with to research, and once that is done, you can both attend the appointment together. You want to ensure that you are getting the service you both have decided on and of course, as the bride you’ll want to meet your potential wedding professionals face-to-face.
In the 1920′s, women got the right to vote and today men are entering the world of weddings, and have been given the right to exercise their likes and dislikes as they relate to this very important day. It is a whole new day for everyone including the wedding professionals who in the past have dealt almost exclusively with women.

Last year’s winner of Bridal Idol, Cassia Pulleyblank and Publisher Sheryl Davies, The Wedding Guide Windsor/Essex County
The holiday season is the most popular time of the year for engagements. Here at The Wedding Guide, we are working hard to relay everything weddings to our local area brides.
Commencing January 27 and running until March 11, Bridal Idol makes its return after a successful launch last year. Hosted by Dawn Marie Entertainment, a name synonymous with Windsor karaoke, the qualifying rounds will be held at The Whiskey and The Victoria Tavern. Shy? Nominate a friend or family member to sing instead! There will be a huge prize package when we have it all assembled. It’s a lot of fun and you are urged to bring your family, friends and wedding party along to cheer you on.
Sponsored by AM800 CKLW and Bluesfest International, this event promises to be even bigger than last year. Be sure to listen to the radio for all the information, updates, interviews and more.
The winning bride will automatically go to the Bluesfestl Idol quarter finals. Bluesfest Idol, will once again be a great success and the finals will be held at the Festival Plaza during Bluesfest in July.
The Wedding Guide is also pleased to once again be one of the presenting sponsors of The Wedding Workshop, scheduled for March 4 at the Fogolar Furlan Club. This event is a must attend as it provides tools that brides require when planning all the details of their wedding. A Perfect Day Wedding and Event Planning is the presenter and this is the 3rd annual. It’s a day of great information from area wedding vendors.
We also remind you that the Wedding Extravaganza Bridal Show takes place this weekend at the Caboto Club for two days. Saturday, January 16 – 10am-5pm and Sunday, January 17, 10am-5pm
Windsor/Essex County takes a lot of hits for its southernmost site on the busiest border crossing in North America. Once a vibrant retail downtown, it now hosts entertainment venues, restaurants of all choices, a seven mile walkable riverfront, and an award- winning Sculpture Garden. St. Clair College has a second campus in the heart of the city. A new $3 million dollar festival stage has been installed, making it the best site in the country to hold an event.
The region offers miles of sandy beaches and golf courses galore. Cruise the river on a boat or bicycle down the riverwalk. for a long leisurely afternoon. Picnic in the park and enjoy a stroll or a seat on a quiet bench.
This area has 16 wineries and has become a bourgeoning industry. Tour and taste your way through the county.
Summer time boasts festivals in the Riverfront Festival Plaza such as Epicure and the award-winning Bluesfest International, the 10th largest blues fest in North America and voted the place to go for a summer music fest, 2010, about.com/blues
So why the preamble about Windsor/Essex County? As a destination site for weddings, it has a lot going for it. The climate is milder, making late April to mid- October excellent weather months for marrying. The choice of venues is staggering from wineries to conventional clubs, restaurants, Caesars Windsor and historic sites like MacKenzie Hall and Willistead Manor. Canadian Club Brand Centre an excellent historic setting is suitable for small gatherings with a breath-taking riverfront view for photographs. From traditional to outrageous, we know all the spots that make for a fantastic wedding locations.
The cost to host a wedding in this part of the province is far less than what you’d expect to pay in the major cities in Ontario. The Wedding Guide boasts preferred wedding professionals; they will work with you to make your day memorable.
Caesars Casino boasts the newest hotel and casino facilities, but you’ll find fine brand name hotels in both the centre of the city, for urban lovers and, in the quiet of the suburbs for those who want easy access parking and freedom to move about the area. Both offer neighbourhood experiences our visitors enjoy.
Ontario allows for same-sex marriage, making Windsor a destination site, convenient to most major mid-west U.S. cities. With a multitude of things to do and see, guests will enjoy the safety of the walking streets and panoramic riverfront.
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