Weddings & Social Media this Bridal Season

Social media has been embraced by just about everyone in daily life and wedding

celebrations are no exception!

Weddings/ Social Media

Weddings/Social Media

With the excitement of their engagement, brides are setting up personal wedding websites  to share engagement pictures; their beautiful new ring and in some cases, it serves as an introduction of her fiancé to friends and family from afar. It is an effective icebreaker for the wedding party to interact and get to know one another online, prior to meeting for the first time.

Emily Post manners recently released a statement that said,  ”all the old rules that are stuffy can be tossed out!”

While social media is still relatively new to weddings, this generation of couples are internet babies and they want to embrace technology in as many ways as they can. And what better time than on their special day.

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Social Media is hot at weddings this season!


One cardinal rule,  that is a definite no-no, is using your mobile device during the ceremony. The bride can appoint one Chief Tweeter to quietly sit in a remote area of the venue to capture the vow-taking.  Attach a hash tag to the event and those who couldn’t make it can still be in the loop and follow the day’s proceedings.

At the reception, brides are setting up a computer station, where guests can post their well wishes and upload wedding day pictures they have captured. Other friends who couldn’t attend  can post and have their comments read much like the telegram of days gone by.

Webcasting is growing as weddings are broadcast on a live stream feed. If there are elderly relatives or guests who are unable to be with the couple at their location, they can still see the day live from the comfort of their homes.

It’s the 21st century and brides will wow their guests with this emerging trend, and many other special touches that make their wedding distinctive while shining a spotlight on their unique personalties!

Rentals & Tents : More Wedding Choices in 2011

rentals & tents, 2011 weddings

Photo: Festival Tent & Party Supply, Windsor, Ontario


“When love and skill work together, expect a masterpiece.” -  John Ruskin

If you have decided on a garden or outdoor wedding, or have rented an unfurnished hall, you will find yourself in need of some expert advice on setting up your reception or celebration party.You can guard against dampened spirits (or equally important, a searing summer sun) with a pretty and practical tent or an elaborate, windowed one. Most caterers can refer you to a tent/ and or party rental company. These rental companies offer table chairs, linens, flatware, stemware and even portable washrooms.

A fully equipped rental store will have a wide range of appropriate wedding accessories, including arches, and chupahs, kneeling benches, candelabras, plant stands, aisle runners, wedding canopies, gazebos, artificial greenery, chair covers and more.

Rental furniture is now available  and  choices includes modular leather sofas and chairs, besides the standard banquet style. Bride and groom booths, a brilliant idea in white leather studded buttons have become a comfortable trend in today’s weddings, for use at the head table or to stand- alone, so the newlyweds can share their first meal as husband and wife seated together, apart from their guests.

The use of “Lounge Style”  furniture allows for “living room” or “settee” areas where guests,  should they choose, can mingle and catch up, away from the dinner tables that they were seated at.

Photo booths, expresso, ice cream and liquor carts,  as well as completely portable, bar refrigeration trucks have all become popular items in the past few years. There has never been a better choice in rentals items for both indoor and outdoor weddings as there are today.

Lighting is becoming another must-have for some couples.  Adding ambiance, excitement and mood, a good lighting tech can transform your reception site from ordinary to extraordinary.

Rental companies will work with you to create the mood and feel that you want for your reception. Rental professionals will provide you with everything you need to create a truly memorable affair. Trust their advice as they plan more parties in a year than most people plan in a lifetime.

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A New Generation of Wedding Professionals are not Buying What The Older Generation is Selling

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A New Generation of Wedding Professionals are not Buying What The Older Generation is Selling

By Paul Pannone

An explosive story that is challenging the ideas of a generation whose time may have passed is waking up a growing portion of the wedding business that is discovering they are no longer alone. The days of keeping them suppressed, barefoot and pregnant came to a halt long ago– but the difference now is the new generation of wedding industry professionals are no longer buying what the prior generation is selling.

In growing numbers wedding industry professionals of all ages that understand the changes are speaking up and speaking out against rules, regulations and restrictions that they’ve been asked to adhere to, as they watch their elders do whatever they want, whenever they want.

In the discussions, Sheryl Davies, a progressive thinker that has serviced the wedding business for over 20 years, has been reading the coverage and feels the rest of the world may be catching up to what she’s known from the start. “Data shows the much sought after luxury and high end market is not viable for the entire wedding business. Hasn’t this always been true? There’s no point in trying to sell to a market that has no money. I do believe that every bride, groom and families want to have the nicest wedding at the budget that they can afford to pay. They just have to balance out their expectations versus the reality of the cost.

As an established vendor, a benchmark for your services has been set in the marketplace. For the experts who under promise and over deliver they make their reputation based on their value. Market demand makes them a valuable commodity. What is most important is that there is a demographic shift taking place with the baby boomers being the largest portion of society. The boomer children are marrying later in life and more couples already have a home and children. They don’t want mom and dad to pay for the wedding and they have responsibilities beyond a wedding day,” according to Davies.

Davies told eWedNews she’s been transitioning away from total dependency on printed format and has developed new strategies that leverage the use of digital marketing. But Davies also understands vendors must understand their market in order to service it properly.

She explains, “The upper echelon of society, they will always spend higher and more lavishly than the other sectors. What is concerning to me is that the middle class is being eroded and there lies the problem. No longer are people able to borrow against the mortgage or over borrow on their credit cards. What goes around does come around and we’re seeing weddings pre- the Princess Diana days where everyone was satisfied with a nice wedding reception.

Nothing has really changed except that there are more players in the industry due to job losses. We call them the ankle-biters who don’t have the experience or make the investment that the pros do. I sponsored a Wedding Workshop last week and 150 brides showed up to see a forum where vendors spoke generically about their service and the brides were actually taking notes. This is the third year of the show and it has grown larger. I attribute that to the fact that brides want and need educating. Bridal shows are great but they leave the show still not knowing how to host a wedding. A better educated bride is an easier consumer to sell to.  Vendors who have passion and solid experience should never have to apologize for their specialty or pricing. They need to target their demographic properly when they are marketing. Brides will find them by their sterling reputations and references.”

In discussions Davies and other wedding industry thinkers are wondering why this all has to be said. “It’s pretty straight-forward and apparent; at the end of the day, we need to make money at what we do, otherwise, why do it?” says Kristina Smith. Smith, Davies and other members of Wedding Industry Survey Network are astounded by the events of the week and how much attention the simple truth is gathering.

Other onlookers, regardless of age, say they’re no longer bound by successes of the past and feel they have as good or better chance than anyone to become successful. “It’s anybody’s ballgame right now and if people just watch their business and are aware of what the bride and groom are looking for—and are there to provide it at a reasonable price, they will be successful,” according to Shane McMurray, founder of  TheWeddingReport.com.  McMurray remains focused on providing timely, accurate and factual information regarding the wedding business, knowing that every successful business owner will want to know the market value they service.

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Bridal Garters- One of the Oldest Wedding Traditions from The Wedding Guide Windsor-Essex County- Ontario,Canada

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Bridal garters date back to 14th century England, where it was believed that they would bring good luck to anyone who was able to obtain a piece of the bride’s attire on her wedding day. Guests would literally tear the bride’s dress, for a piece of the fabric, much to the dismay of the bride and groom. As history progressed, and in order to keep the bride’s attire intact,  a garter was made for  the groom to  throw  at the guests. This resulted in quite aggressive and rowdy behaviour as the male guests tried to remove the garter from the bride’s leg. The natural evolution of this ritual  to the 21st century is that the groom removes the garter from the bride’s leg himself and then tosses it to the bachelors in the crowd.

Today, the bride wears two garters; one as a memento of the day, and one that is tossed at the reception. The man who captured the garter was supposed to be the next to marry and in some customs would slip it on the leg of the unmarried woman who caught the bridal bouquet.

The tossing of the garter is part of a wedding celebration but not always included by some couples. It is a matter of personal choice.

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Windsor’s Wedding Guru: Women On Top Magazine, wotmag.ca (September/October Issue)- The Wedding Guide Windsor/Essex County

My sincerest thanks to Bonnie Evans, Publisher of WOT Magazine for this article! – Sheryl Davies, Publisher, The Wedding Guide Windsor/Essex County

John Lyons Photography: Windsor Ontario, Canada

Sheryl Davies is a veteran of the wedding industry and has spent most of her early career working with brides. With 22 years of  experience in both the  wholesale   and retail industries – selling china, crystal and housewares – Sheryl became the go- to person for everything having to do with weddings. In this  capacity, she  worked with such prestigious companies as Royal Doulton, Rosenthal, Royal Worcester Spode, Orrefors crystal and others.

She set-up the bridal registry for what was the then,  the nationwide T. Eaton Company, prior to the advent of the computer!  As a display specialist and salesperson, she also created wedding and other types of trade shows. One of the many reasons Sheryl has been so successful is the amount of time she has spent learning first-hand what brides want and how they want to be treated on their special day. Davies‘ understands the bride’s psyche and knows that all brides are not just ―regular consumers when it comes to wedding planning. She knows that brides have a very small window of time to plan and execute their dream day.

Today, the bridal registry is considered equally important, but the items registered are of a completely different nature than they were in the past. Brides don‘t necessarily want formal dinnerware – but instead ask for such items as tools, barbeques, wine, books and other signature style picks for living in the 21st Century. This change is also due to the fact that, more and more, couples are actually living together for years before committing to marriage.

In 1990, Davies, purchased the franchise for The Wedding Guide Toronto and opened the first franchise in the Canadian market. Her first issue was the largest and most profitable issue ever produced for the franchisor, who started this business in 1984. To her credit and her ongoing hard work, Sheryl‘s record has yet to be broken. When she started this business, her son was just a baby and she had learned to balance and juggle a very hectic life.

Moving back to her hometown of Windsor, Ontario Canada with her husband,  John and son Jonathon, she opened The Wedding Guide Windsor/Essex County in 1992, which continues to be the leading bridal publication in the region. It is published bi-annually and serves as a benchmark for good taste and stress-free bridal planning. The mandate is to ensure that each and every bride remains organized, on-task and stress-free. Davies believes that an engagement should be the happiest time in a gal’s life and she intends to keep it that way!

With the change from traditional-to-signature-style personalized weddings, Davies is seeing dramatic changes in the style/types of weddings for which her clients are asking. One of these changes is that brides simply do not want the same type of wedding that their mother‘s had! Second marriages don‘t nece-sarily have the stigma attached to them they once had and are no longer low-key, as was the case 30 years ago! The bride will plan it completely,  just the opposite from the way she planned the wedding the first time around.

Special events, like weddings, are not new to Davies. She is the publicist and one of the key organizers of Bluesfest International, the 10th largest in North America, which is now in its 16th year. Each year, Sheryl and her three partners play host to over 30,000 festival-goers, over a 3 day weekend.

As a pioneer in social media marketing, Davies’ small business solutions company pioneered the only social application in the business with the capability of showing demo bridal videos,  and has the capability, to post to over 70 social media sites! Her Wedding Guide sits in the middle of the Facbeook page, unlike other wedding planners, who pay for the expensive ads one can see on the right-hand side of Facebook’s usual pages. Unlike the others, Davies’ clients are right smack dab in the middle of the page and pay nothing!! More important, her clients have control over their own websites. It’s a marriage of convenience and no more waiting for your web person to change your pages.

This revolutionary technology is keeping her parent company, DMS Communications very busy (dmscommunications.info); constantly working to promote her wide range of wedding vendors and other clients. Gigya, one of the largest developers of social apps has 3 of  DMS Communications websites profiles on their social optimization website, as prototypes of their technology.    Her website and blog:  http://bridaltalk.theweddingguide.ca/, is a social hit and provides gorgeous Real Wedding pictures, helping to promote her photography partners, as well as lending inspiration to future and potential brides via the comprehensive list of the area‘s most reputable local wedding professionals.

Sheryl has a knack for discovering emerging wedding trends and, loves to share them with her brides. Her blogs cover everything from ” I will to I do.” in a comprehensive upscale bridal planner. Davies believes that a bride is too stimulated by all the information available for weddings, so she spends a great deal of time on every aspect of weddings, with her vendors presented in a forum that brides love and can learn from in a relaxed atmosphere.

With out-of-the-box thinking, like “Win a $25,000 Wedding” in a 737 aircraft with Saturday Night Live’s Father Guido Sarducci (1998), and by doing plenty of media interviews, Sheryl keeps her brand fresh and alive in the psyche of both brides and advertising sponsors. Take, for example, Bridal Idol,  a karaoke contest that had Wedding Guide advertisers pledging $25,000 in prizes to the winning bridewith radio ads tagged with their businesses for a 7 week period. It’s not about too much information – it’s about providing quality information that brides can use.

Her other mandate is to spend as much time as possible assisting brides. Offering special money-saving coupons has been a boom in this economy and brides appreciate a deal but then, who doesn’t?

Considered a solid wedding expert, Davies can be found chatting with brides, wedding vendors and writing columns for her blogs. At the age of 59, and with the energy of a 30 year old, Sheryl is happiest working, listening to music, blogging and planning for the future.

She has no retirement plans and will continue minding her business with her husband/business partner, John Liedtke. It just too fulfilling to even take a second to think about retiring and if she retired, what would she do? Life is for living and Davies thrives on new adventures, challenges and meeting new people! ■

Sheryl Davies is a founding member of the Canada South Festival Network and 2009 award winner for her work in the festival industry, founding member of the Canada South Blues Society, writer for Biz X Magazine, Art Matters column and President of DMS Communications and Publisher of The Wedding Guide/ Windsor/Essex County.  She has recently been appointed to the board of eWEDnews,  a group of esteemed wedding professionals based in New York City.