You’re engaged and there is much to do and plan. One of the first steps that you should take after deciding your budget is to set up a bridal registry, which will help people who choose to bring you a gift for your engagement parties and pre-wedding celebrations.
Take your fiancé with you and make your registry a joint effort. This is a time to really have fun and items can be added like a deluxe BBQ, outdoor patio furniture, garden accessories, ladders, electric tools, camping gear and more.
Let your shower hostesses know where you registered so they can add it to the invitation. The idea is to have everyone “shower” you with gifts. When it comes to your wedding invitation, do not include an enclosure care or any mention of where your registered. Notify both sets of parents, as well as members of the wedding party where you are registered, so they can assist with casually spreading the word.
When you are registering for your gifts, feel free to register at more than one store, which gives your guests more options. It’s always helpful to have a lot of price points in your registry, so guests can choose accordingly for engagement, shower and wedding items.
Once you have registered, review your registry often to make changes and additions to your list.
Do pay attention to the small print when you decide to register. Will gifts be shipped to your address or will you have to pick them up. Know their return policy time frame. Check too to see if they offer toll-free and online shopping for your guests.
Registering for your future is fun and it’s an exciting time. Do make sure you list a lot of options priced at or below fifty dollars. Don’t just register for high-end items.
And, when a gift is given, the etiquette tradition that remains steadfast is the thank you note. Don’t make guests wonder whether their gift got lost in the mail. Promptly send personal, hand-written thank-you notes after you receive a gift. Your note doesn’t have to be anything fancy or long; just let them know you appreciate their gift and thank them for being a part of your wedding celebrations. That is, in fact what matters most.
