If you are marrying in the near future and you are trying to handle all the planning by yourself; you are making a big mistake!
Sharing the responsibility is most important to maintaining a calm and organized feeling throughout the entire planning process. The last month is especially detail- oriented and you don’t want to shoulder the burden alone. There are many areas that you have to oversee and you want to ensure that nothing gets missed- we understand that. But other pair’s of eyes have to assist you or you may lose control.
Make sure to choose friends and family that are responsible and can follow through efficiently with certain tasks without your supervision. This will allow you to focus on the aspects of your special day that are most important to you, and leave other tasks that you may be less adept at, to those who can pull them off with ease!!!
There is always one friend that you can make your head person for the wedding day, so you can truly enjoy your own ceremony and reception. Or if you really know yourself, ensure that you hire an event coordinator at the beginning of your planning process. This will remove a great weight from your shoulders and allow you to carefully consider each step of your journey to the altar with someone behind you who is totally in charge. It’s your choice how and what you want to do!
